Sunday, September 28, 2014

Love, defined

In the realm of words, it seems there are too many dimensions and there is too much nuance to rest on pithy definitions, but ignoring meaning, when the word "love" is bandied so freely, seems a bit foolish and ignorant of consequences, hence a working definition here:

Love

  • Affinity - I like that inexplicable 'you', and it's probably mutual. Do we really love anyone who doesn't even like us?
  • Abundance - We have a lack of want or need given the context of the relationship. E.g., family 'love' is probably more demanding because the expectations are higher. Consider this suited to Buddha.
  • Shared-experience - It seems difficult to love someone too distant, even if the closeness you're relying upon is memories.

Our Gifts versus Our Choices

I've started grading these, like school grading. I was surprised how I evaluate myself. These seven may not include every gift attribute, but generally, our other benefits/advantages are more solely our choices:

  1. Young
  2. Good-Looking
  3. Intelligent
  4. Good Family
  5. Affluent
  6. Healthy
  7. Innate Talent/Skills

Of course the grades will be relative. An 'A' in everything here is going to be different in Calcutta versus Lichtenstein.

Monday, October 21, 2013

Tiny Homes Links

some but not all...






House for One Person (Peter B. Janes) * Rich in the Woods * $1,000 Cabin on the Coast 




gone prefix verbose...


jalopycabins.com ...except here




www.forgeahead.org * www.shltr.net/jenine-movie (Jenine Alexander in Healdsburg!)









www.YardPods.com * md@yardpods.com (to $11k; bathrooms?; uses bamboo; factory in Rohnert Park!)

Montana Mobile Cabins

www.tuffshed.com ($4k for structure)

HomePlace Structures * Jamaica Cottage Shop * Spirit Elements

www.TortoiseShellHome.com ($30k base; Calistoga!)


more prefabs: Turtleback Nomadics * Small Home Oregon * New England Shed and Barn * Tiny Green Cabins * Canyon Classic Cabins * Nantucket Sheds




Hobbit House in Wales * Ziggy's Cob Cottage * The Laughing House (<$10k diy)


Pallet/Cob Backyard Shed ~ Joel Glanzberg (~$500)

Straw Bale / Cob House in Southern Oregon ~ Sarah Parker, Tyler Walter
www.shltr.net/sb-cob1 (bad link!)


www.thatroundhouse.info * Dogon Dome * Big Sky Yurt ~ www.big-grass.com  * Ardheia ~ The Pentagon Cabin (Julie Lambertson) ... composting toilet; bedroom cabin; solar shower


www.FindingUtopia.org ~ Taylor Camp (more a movement than practical)



www.clickclackgorilla.com (Nicolette ~ Deutschland von den U.S.A.)

Sunday, December 2, 2012

Marriage Equality

I first thought this before I ever heard it, yet it's so relatively sound that of course others would suggest it: Declare all existing marriages civil unions. The state then only recognizes civil unions. Marriage remains the domain of the church. You would just then need a better term than "civil union" to describe people who are now married. We're "unified" doesn't quite cut it.

Monday, April 23, 2012

The Safety of Night













In an unsafe neighborhood, everyone out at night seems a high potential for being up to no good.

In a safe neighborhood, everyone should theoretically be comfortable being out at night, but there's also the reality/perception that people not being out at night is what makes it safe.

Ideal would be both the observation and reality that it is safe out at night, except for those who like being afraid of things or imposing that fear onto others.

Saturday, December 3, 2011

For Hetero Women...

When a man loves a woman, outside the ephemeral romantic heights associated with love, he's either solemnly dutiful or pining for her. They're love too, and those three pretty much cover it. Without at least one, you're probably thinking of something else.

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Speculations on why Grigori Perelman rejected the Millennium Prize

a) He doesn't understand economics. The smartest people, in the world, in any one discipline, will often be handicapped in others. One of the two main philosophers who influenced Hitler made this point perhaps best. I know someone well that's no Perelman, but more mathematically advanced than most of the rest of us. Alas, I understand economics better than he, because he's focused conceptually on space-time stuff, flows of electrons, etc. It's not currency. It's not brute mathematical strength, but orientation - a direction turned.

b) Integrity. Like Sartre, he doesn't want to capitulate to the organization giving the prize. Unlike for most of us, accolades negate objectives. Cedeing to the award allows the institution to claim him as object. "Please help us in welcoming Academy Award Winner, Grigori Perelman!" [Perelman enters hammy-smiling, irrespective of mood, offers platitudes to the organization, validating its structure, objectives, and forwards to say what they want to hear about what he's thinking and doing.]

c) Money is demanding. The old truth about one of the primary occupations of the wealthy is preserving wealth is true. The rest of us think it means you can go on holiday at will. You can. But you'll probably spend part of it thinking about your wealth, or will again as soon as you get home.

d) Simply bureaucratic, perhaps accepting the award requires more than just the words "I accept" (I don't know), and he doesn't think whatever efforts are worth the benefit. He may have had to complete a report, sign a contract, etc. "I know how to control the Universe. So tell me — why should I chase a million?" (translated) In addition to the other arguments, the word "chase" sounds like there would be still more work to do for the prize.

e) He's a committed communist. The only use a communist would have for $1 million is a war tool. Otherwise, while potentially useful, it is not in-and-of-itself, and the ideal is that this is the way it should be.